What do you say to her? What CAN I say to help her alleviate her pain? She’s done nothing wrong. If anything, she’s the only person I know who went through life being ultra nice… played by the rules… and still listened to her heart and fought for every little thing that it wanted. She followed her passion for music and loves a man with full abandon. She miraculously love spending time with her family and GETS ALONG with ALL of them. Can you imagine? I mean, I have a small immediate family but there are a couple members I don’t get along with ALL the time.

She loves kids. She works with them on a daily basis and they love her. It’s not hard to see that. She not only deserved to have a baby of her own… she wanted to have one. Not all parents could say that they wanted to have a child ’til their kid came out… or at least a few months after finding out that they were pregnant (when the dust has settled).

How do you come to terms with losing a child? A child you haven’t known but loved and will love your whole lifetime? Will her future be filled with wonder what her child could have been or would have looked like?

An unborn child leaves a deeper impression than most people could ever do. I pray for her and wish that things will start looking up and she won’t blame herself for ANY THING. Her baby was probably just as pure as her and maybe God just wanted to keep her child a little bit longer… Maybe He decided that there was another soul who greatly needs to be loved by her. I hope she knows this and believes it… because I do.