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Our Little Visitor: Justin

Kids are so amazing. One thing I love about them is their imagination. They can travel the whole world (and even galaxies) inside their heads. Their curiosity runs as wild as their imaginations. I think it’s because they formulate this whole story in their head when they see something before asking what it is. It’s funny how sometimes they’d look so disappointed when a “mysterious” object loses its mystery once it’s explained to them how it works.

Justin, my sister-in-law’s son, paid us a visit yesterday (with my sweet mother-in-law). He reminded me how beautiful it is to be a child with such a wild imagination… When everything is still so new. He came in with his usual boisterous voice and bellowed: “Tito (Uncle), is this your office?!” and without waiting for an answer he says: “What’s this?” (pointing to his Tito’s measuring tape).

Justin. He found a way to entertain himself.

Justin. He found a way to entertain himself.

I found myself thinking of ways to entertain him inside the office… but what could a six year old do in such a play-forsaken place? Just as I was about to barrage him with a question and answer contest (just to keep him from being bored), he went straight to the white board and started doodling (he found a way to entertain himself, as usual).

He started by writing his name in one corner then decided to draw a house in the other end. Which, came complete with windows, a door, and yes, a tree right beside it. All the while declaring the things that he’s been drawing.

Tita (Aunt), this is my house, I’ll put my name on it… ”
“Look Tita, I drew a tree! I’m putting it outside so these people will have shade…”

When he said people, he meant those little stick figures he made by the tree. Two stick figures became eight then he drew this odd shaped thing beside the house which he claims is a monster which is to be fought by the people who arrived in a truck.

He carried on and on while drawing. I was so fascinated with his wild imagination. It seemed like he never ran out of scenarios playing in that cute head of his. The great thing is they all tied up together. It had no ending, though. By the time he started running out of things to say, he found something else to do.

He saw all these machines in the production area and one by one he started asking what each of them did. When he was satisfied, he’d ask some gory question like: “If I put my hand there, would it cut off my fingers?” Little boys can be so different from little girls. Fascinating nonetheless.

Life would be so boring without kids around. Having Justin in our office for a little while gave such life in our ordinarily drab office. I remember a time when my own imagination would run as wild as his… my own curiosity would lead me to search for answers (or formulating one myself) instead of assuming the way things worked. I used to daydream for hours on end.

As we all get older, we tend to lose our fascination with imagination. We tend to assume that we have seen it all and that we know it all. Thus, forgetting to see the mystery in the things around us. Justin’s visit reminded me to never lose that little kid in all of us because our imagination and wonder gives color to our otherwise drab day-to-day routine.

Nurture the child within!

Our Dance

Our Dance

Across the floor we swept away,
There weren’t much words for us to say.
Your gentle eyes said it all,
It had much love than I recall.

I wanted to tell of things in my heart,
But I didn’t know how to start.
Your loving arms held me so,
That I didn’t ever want to let go.

Behind my eyes I could never hide,
It told you everything I couldn’t confide.
That I couldn’t say how much you meant,
When the moment came up and went.

I love you, Papa. More than words can say,
I’m grateful for you in every way
.”
Our eyes welled up for all to see,
But that moment belonged only to you and me.

He makes me feel…

If you’re like me, most likely you fell in love with the wrong person at least once in your life. I am such a sucker for “love at first sight” stories which may or may not have been part of the wrong choices I’ve made in the past. I’d like to believe that there are couples out there who truly met and fell in love all within a span of a second. But like most people, I had to trudge through a path of heartaches… leaving behind a trail of painful memories.

There were times when I lost my faith in love. There were also times when I felt like maybe there was something I did that was so bad that I did not deserve to belong with someone else. A few tears later and after the self-pity has subsided, the hopeless romantic in me would gain strength and I would be back on the search once more… only to fail miserably again.

my hubby

It wasn’t until the day that I said: “All or nothing” when things started to change for me. It was a secret pact I made with myself. It was either I’d find the one or I’d spend the rest of my life being content with living life precariously through my siblings. By then I was feeling pretty pessimistic and was thinking that nobody every really finds the one. People around me were merely settling down and my parents’ relationship ended up in separation. Not very inspiring. Until I met him.

It wasn’t the fireworks-at-first-sight kind of thing when my brother introduced us and we didn’t become fast friends either. I can’t remember it exactly when we became close friends. It was like one day I just knew who he was and in the next, we were hanging out so much… text messaging each other every day ’til one day, I found myself missing him. My day didn’t feel complete if I didn’t get to speak or see him. That’s when I knew that I’ve fallen… that was four years before we got married and six years ago from today.

He has always been so wonderfully patient with me and still loves me even when I am at my worst. He makes me feel so secure. I see him across a crowded room always a vision of calm and quiet confidence, nothing else mattered. Not my nervousness enveloping me in a room full of strangers, not my inability to make small talk… none of those feelings mattered. I can’t think of a better person to spend the rest of my life with. I feel so privileged to be growing old with him. I can’t wait to know that one day far from now, I’ll be at his side and watch the world pass us by.

There are so many things in him that I am grateful for. I am most especially thankful for his love. It is his love that has shown me that I am indeed worthy. He makes me feel loved not just by him… but also by my self.

The song “Bless the Broken Road” by Rascal Flatts summarized everything I felt and feel. I know that many of you can relate to this song too. Here’s the video:

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